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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's fine to make him apologize. BUT, I know plenty of kids who in the chaos of packing and changing camps or vacation spots, may just run out w/o thinking. I think it would be better to speak to him first and explain why it was rude, as well as that it hurt the wife's feelings. Hopefully he will understand. Then ask him to apologize.

Your father is acting like a child. Never visit again? Way over the top and, quite frankly, a dick move. I'd also have a conversation with dear old dad about his reaction and expectations. And it would be me seriously considering whether I'd want to leave my kid with someone who reacts in that way.[/quote]

Did you read the part where OP said that DS slept in until after noon and then just stayed on his phone while his grandparents were trying to interact with him?  Then he left without saying bye.  He is only 11, but I can see where an elderly person from a culture where kids are expected to show significant respect to elders being overwhelmed by this behavior for 5 days straight.  I don't see this as "a dick move," I see it as a reaction of a frustrated and disappointment older man.  OP doesn't need to chastise her DS, but she can explain her father's culture and that he really hurt their feelings.  I wouldn't relay what her dad actually said because it's not necessary.  [/quote]

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