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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^It is not trolling to state a simple fact: [b]you can remove earrings, but not the holes/scars left behind by piercing.[/b][/quote] Ok, so whatever, you may be able to see them. The kid will also likely have various scars, etc.[b] If they are that hung up on holes left from piercings as opposed to anything else, they have bigger issues. [/b] Are you one of the posters who won't cut her kid's hair or fingernails or vaccinate them because that "violates their bodily integrity" and they can't consent?[/quote] No, I'm not. But keep reassuring yourself that only extreme/crazy people think it's unwise to pierce someone's ears--a totally unnecessary and purely decorative/sex-specific thing to do--before they are old enough to to want that for themselves. [/quote] PP is an example of mental illness at its finest. Get help, PP.[/quote] NP. If the PP is crazy for thinking it is wise to wait until a child is old enough to know whether she wants pierced ears to pierce her ears, then I have a mental illness and need help, too. [/quote] No, I agree with you on that. But if someone has a lasting negative impact on their happiness and wellbeing because of two earring holes from mommy and daddy? That’s mental illness.[/quote] Who said anything about a lasting negative impact on their happiness and wellbeing because of holes? About being forced to wear dresses and perform/behave "like a girl" when that's really not who you are--yeah, that's different. Two small holes is not what the PP with her SIL example was talking about. At all. She was talking about forced and unrelenting gender performance. Do you get that?[/quote]
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