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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nah! No guilt. SAHM with grown kids in HS.  Love to be home.

DH works hard and wants me to be refreshed and happy when he gets home. He says that he is put on the Earth to make me happy and he does.

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that's awesome, can you give some examples of what he does for you to make you happy (besides letting you do whatever you want while he is not around). [/quote]

Well, we do have a very comfortable lifestyle due to the money he earns and the money he is willing to spend. But that can be easily dismissed  by DCUM as not a sign of devotion to me but an expense he bears, amirite?

So here is some of the things he does for me. He has done the same from the time we were dating.  
 - He has always had my back and made it clear from the time we started dating that I was the most important person in his life to family and friends. This has resulted in very cordial and drama free relationship with ILs on both sides of the family. We are college sweethearts and each others first and only love.  Been married for 20 years. 
- Makes me tea in the morning and gives it to me in bed since we've been together.  
-  I am not a morning person so he will make breakfast for the kids, pack their lunch-bags and drop them off to school, so that I can sleep in. 
- He is a great cook and cooks at least several meals a week. Also cooks when we are entertaining.
- Very generous lover and his high libido matches mine.
- Makes sure that he fully supports me in my hobbies, causes, and madcap adventures.
-  Lets me get away with my girlfriends once a year for a mini vacation without kids.  
- Supported me completely when I had my kids and wanted to nurse them. He made sure that for several months postpartum, nursing my babies and taking care of myself was the only thing I did. He arranged for help, had my mom come and live with us, and outsourced as much stuff as he could. 
- He took care of the kids when they were babies at night. He did not allow anyone else to take care of them even when help was available. He propped me up so that I could nurse them, but the rest of burping, changing diapers and rocking them to sleep? He did it happily.  
- Arranges for me to have a massage every month. 
- He has been a  loyal, loving, moral and drama-free husband to me.  I think we are just very lucky and well suited to one another.  
- Appreciates my being a SAHM and feels that I am doing a great service to him and the kids by just being available 24/7

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I work out of the home and my husband does not do all of what your husband does (and I think we have an amazing relationship) so.... congrats! You both seem very loving and happy[/quote]

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