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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your wife is putting you on notice OP. My DH had an expectation for me to work full time, take care of the house and the kids. I do all the grocery shopping (to maintain a budget), prep some meals, pay all the bills on time (I love my credit score too much) and I clean because I don’t want to live like a pig. Here is what I don’t do...my husband’s laundry, clean his office, and clean his closet/sink. When my husband does not have socks or t-shirt to wear, that is not my problem. I make it very clear to him that I am not his personal maid. If he leaves his dishes on the kitchen counter for me to clean up. I tell him “Is there a reason these dishes left for me to clean up? Do I look like a f-ing maid to you?” If the dishes stay on the counter for more than a day, I drop them on the floor in front of him. If they break, it is not my problem and he can clean them up. I also stopped having sex with my DH, because he acts like an entitled ass most of the time. He can go and j**k off somewhere. I don’t give a damn. If I would be you, I would start being very nice to your wife and do your part/pitch in. My DH is getting there, but I had to resort to an irregular warfare. Happy wife, happy life.[/quote] You sound horrible. Are you mentally stable or do you have issues?[/quote] Sounds like her issue is that her DH was a man/child who expected a mommy to do all his chores for him even though she also works full time.[/quote] I can't imagine NOT going my husband's laundry. How does it work ? You throw his laundry in a separate pile while doing yours? When he does projects around the house, does he slpit them in half as well?[/quote] Doubt OP does “projects around the house”. He just goes to work and does nothing at home. If he did stuff around the house, his wife wouldn’t be on strike. My teenagers do their own laundry as does their dad. Grow ups should be able to do laundry on their own.[/quote] Pretty sure the wife isn't offering to go out and mow the lawn, clean out the gutters, remove the wasps nest, change that janky doorknob etc So no - when he does project around the house, she isn't helping.[/quote]
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