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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He also deserves the opportunity to make decisions about his life based on truth and not lies. Not when she gets around to her 9th step or the therapeutic equivalent—now.[/quote]
Totally agree. I call BS on those who think telling the truth is selfish and self serving.  [/quote]
Different poster, and I totally agree too.  It sounds like OP is going to find some excuse to keep this secret (and others are happy to suggest excuses).  But the truth is that she cheated, and if she has any decency or consideration for her spouse, she'll tell the truth.  To hide and lie further is just OP selfishly making it easier to avoid the hard truth.  Tell you husband, explain why you did what you did, and then let him decide with open eyes what he needs to do.

Don't continue to be selfish.  You being selfish is what started this problem.  Now you need to prioritize others to fix the problem.
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Agree. Her husband deserves to know the truth of his own marriage. [/quote]

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