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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem isn’t whether to live in a small town or city.

The problem is you don’t love your wife.  You aren’t crazy about her.  The way you describe the beginning of your relationship makes it obvious  that you just went along with everything.

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That is a really unfair judgement. If it comes across this way it's because I'm feeling very unsettled right now and I am resenting her putting me through this.

Yes, we didn't have a fairytale romance. In fact, I was really hard work for a long time (probably still am) and I had real trouble making a commitment. It wasn't until she got pregnant that I chose to grow up and move the relationship forward.

I love my wife and my children and you're not in a position to tell me I don't. You don't know anything me or our history, except for my discussing this one issue.

I'm a great father and husband and provider and I'd do anything for my family. I just feel very strongly about this one MASSIVE change in our lives she's asking for. - OP[/quote]

BA BAM! You are a keeper OP.  I really loved your response, and I hope you wife appreciates your tremendous backbone.

I have friends that feel the same way about being homesick, and going home more often, as a family, helps them.  3 hours is not that far away, BTW. [/quote]

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