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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If she wants to move, get a lawyer OP.  [/quote]

Very broadly speaking, judges will grant you custody if you can keep them in same school, activities etc. (in other words, provide stability for kids.)

I would get an attorney. This could become a very big deal.

If you can do beneficial things for your kids (like keep their friendships), I think it makes sense to seek custody. However, the fact you bring up the affair so prominently makes me wonder if you are pissed at her (understandably). If so, think carefully about what is best for your kids, like considering if she’s a good mom. [/quote]

These posters really make me mad. Who cares if she is a good mom? Does anyone care if he's a good dad? Someone unilaterally removing children from a situation where they have the ability to see and bond with both engaged parents on a daily basis is being a bad parent. Full stop. Her being a good mom doesn't give her the right to abscond with their kids.

A woman who made the decision to have an affair and break up the home and THEN makes a decision to try to move without working out the details with dad is really making a series of damaging and negligent parenting decisions. Being mean to dad (just like being mean to mom) IS bad parenting.

Frankly even if I was over an affair, if my spouse was moving my kids 600 miles away to be with the affair partner I would find that particularly unseemly and be less likely to try to be understanding to their plight. But that is just a consequence of breaking up your marriage for an affair and trying to abscond with the kids. [/quote]

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