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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here:
It's interesting to read into people's biases regarding the gender of the participants. I'm definitely not going to reveal it, since it's not pertinent to the outcome of the situation.[/quote]

It is pertinent in the framework of it being obviously an affair if it is an all guys trip and joe brings along a random girl, or an all girls trip and Larla brings along a random guy. [/quote]

OP has said many times it is a co-ed trip, mix of couples and friends.

I think though that it is easier for a girl to get away with bringing along an 'awesome new friend who is male' than a man could get away with bringing 'an awesome new friend that is female.' And the talk of them talking over skype and flushing makes me think Friend A is a woman. OP is right that it doesn't really matter but I do think a woman has a better chance of making it undercover than a man.

So if OP's question was, 'is there any way this can go undetected on this trip?' my answer would be different if it was a guy bringing along a girl or vice versa. But in terms of 'the right thing to do' it is a hard question.

One possibility that hasn't been thrown out OP, tell Friend D (morally opposed to affairs and direct friend). 10 bucks says Friend D blows it up pre-trip and takes care of this for you and Friend C. [/quote]

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