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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.  The lack of intamacy is not on me.  After repeated rejection, about 1 year ago I told her to let me know when.  
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Oh, OP, I also wouldn’t be spreading my legs for a man who can’t grt to work, but can find time to chat up every coed he meets. [/quote]

First of all, I was at work, from 7 AM until noon.  I am paid to think -- to solve complex scientific problems.  Because I was up too late, I was very tired, and was unable to concentrate.  I did what I could at work, got ready for this week, and left.  If I am too tired to think clearly, I will make mistakes which will need to be fixed.  I would not be productive.   I do not have a job where I can fake it on a bad day.  I am paid quite well to do what I do, because I am good at it.  I bring in the money that keeps my team working; I am the face of the team to the customer.  I saw no reason to stay at work to be unproductive on a Friday afternoon when I am tired.  Why was I tired?  Well, I was up to one AM.  I was watching hockey, and then enjoying a once (in my life time so far) experience of having my team win the championship while I am in town.  I did not party like Ovi did yesterday (I am too old for that).  I did not drink anything stronger than sparkling water.

As for the younger woman I saw, I decided that I should have some coffee.  I ordered, and while waiting for my drink, I  noted a T-shirt on someone, and said one word:  [discipline]?  She said yes.  I then said my profession, related.  It is a smaller field.  In the conversation, which was friendly, but professional, I found her to be passionate about her work (as am I), she told me what she does, I talked about my work -- at least what I could talk about, where she went to school, where I went to school, etc.  She was not a coed:  she probably was in her 30s (as she said she graduated from college 10 years earlier).  Was she my time?  Well, my type is smart and funny, so yes.   She also came in wearing field attire -- T-shirt, jeans, work boots.

I am not, however, trying to pick up young women in coffee shops.  I go to this shop at least 1x per day, often the first customer in the morning.  In there newsletter, I am actually featured a couple of times;  the coffee shop is my favorite place to hang out.  I know many of the regulars, and all of the employees.

As for my wife, she knows the place is my favorite place.  More than anything else, it is why I like the town we live in.  It is the kind of place that makes people want to talk to others.

You all should try it.  It is a much nicer way to live life.[/quote]
You sound insufferable. It’s a wonder your wife isn’t flirting in coffee shops. I bet you have a shaggy and graying beard. [/quote]

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