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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just can't get over the fact that after having this text convo with your brother, the first thing you do is run to see if your mom knew.

Like, who does that?  Who takes away the opportunity for their sibling & SIL to share the news with their mom & MIL that they're expecting?!

Did you even check in with your brother about doing that?  Like a short "so, how excited is mom?" to see if he says "oh, we're waiting until Wife is __ weeks until we share with everyone."  Instead, you just run off and blab!

That's cold.  
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I would do the same thing. It's not cold; it's about not keeping secrets from your mom [/quote]

It's not your "secret" to keep or tell. Do you get it?

When I had a major health issue recently, I chose to tell some people and not to loop others in until I had more information. If my sister had told anyone before *I* was ready to tell someone--even a family member--I would have felt betrayed and hurt. And it would have taken a long time to rebuild trust.[/quote]

no, i don't "get it". i will discuss whatever i feel like discussing and you can suck it?[/quote]

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