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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are the type of person who would tell someone else's PARENTS about their pregnancy without checking with them first, then do not remotely wonder why you are not in your BIL/SIL's "inner circle." You are awful for that, OP.

Inexcusable.[/quote]

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History of losses here, early ones but apparently I’m at especially high risk of loss at the end of the pregnancy.

We don’t tell ANYONE until at least after anatomy scan. We tend to stick to ourselves so that works for us.

Family don’t find out until the birth. We aren’t close with them, they’re stressful in different ways and with my health issues I really don’t need more stress while pregnant.

Nobody is welcome to visit in the hospital. My births are a big ongoing medical production with a ton of interventions and I’m a total mess. Visitors are literally the last thing on my mind.

After the stunt you pulled OP, you should consider yourself very lucky if you get to meet the child at all.[/quote]

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