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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's actually wise to not date anyone for a couple of years after a divorce. Everyone needs time to heal after a difficult marriage and divorce...EVERYONE. This is the time you should be taking to heal from your past marriage so you do not bring the negatives into any new relationships. I learned this the hard way. I remarried very quickly and brought all my insecurities with me so now I'm trying to heal while married again...not impossible but certainly not ideal. I actually do think you should give it a rest for a while. It usually happens when we least expect it but are ready. Take time to nourish yourself. If you haven't already, start seeing a counselor so you can work on making sure you don't end up having the same types of relationships as your past. Nobody thinks it will happen that way but it always does if there was no healing. This should be a time of learning and growth for you. You will greatly benefit and so will any future relationships you have!!! [/quote]
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