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Reply to "How do you know if your marriage is dead beyond repair—and do you stay for kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous]It’s hard to commit to someone you don’t respect as a partner, even if you are respectful in your interactions. You are almost guaranteed to grow resentment. I could not respect my ex because he represented values that contradicted mine. As I stated I lost respect for myself and who I was becoming. I left and things got harder before they got better, but they did get better. Finally. I would never go back, and instead focus on trying to give as much as I can in coparenting now with my ex to support our child. My fear of my daughter seeing my misery, thinking it was normal, and advocating for her having a marriage like that made me want to leave even more. But there are no easy choices[/quote]
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