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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait  the personal trainer just happens to be in vegas the exact same time as your DH's business trip?
Um..ok.  that's one h ec of a coincidence.

And your dh showed interest in meeting up with her and her friends while there?
Why? Do they have a lot in common? It's not really something that crosses my mind to meet with my trainer during my  limited down time on a business trip[/quote]

Yeah I know pretty unbelievable [/quote]

I'm all the more amazed that your husband would even share all this info with you? Kinda crazy![/quote]

Why do you think he did? [/quote]

Are you asking me or OP? I get the impression (if this isn't a troll thread) that the husband assumes that his wife will put up with his crap and so he has no qualms about sharing such incriminating news. Next thing he'll be telling her, "Damn, we got drunk and actually slept together. But it's ok because it was a one-night stand". [/quote]

Op here. I can assure you none of this is flying with me and the latter would mean his mom comes out ASAP to stay with the kids and I would move out and contact a divorce lawyer Monday am.  I’m really not a pushbover[/quote]

OP, whatever you do, DON'T MOVE OUT.  Depending on your state law "abandoning" the marital home could have financial consequences and at a minimum you will upset the children more and lose a lot of control.  I've read through the whole 7 pages and I would have the locks changed today.   He is the one who needs to move out.  You stay put with the kids in your/their home.  Let him know a few hours before he boards his flight home that he needs to arrange for a hotel when he gets back and he will not be staying in the house until you have gone to counselling, a lawyer or whatever you decide.  And yeah, I'd also be getting a PI and a forensic accountant to see what he's up to.   Google Las Vegas Private Investigator - there is still time to get one in LV and find out for sure what is going on.  [/quote]

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