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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why on earth is boyfriend finding a job for his daughter?  Why isn’t she find her own job?  I mean what parent does that?  Is he actually going on interviews for her.  Lol.  I think if he does find her a job she’ll quit.  You need to move out completely to see how this all plays out.  [/quote]

Almost everybody I know had a parent, uncle, cousin, neighbor, professor, etc find them a job. It's called networking. Parents help their kids get jobs, it's a thing. [/quote]

My parents, extended family, friends, etc... NEVER did that for me.   I found my own jobs.  [/quote]

As a leader at a large local IT company, I can tell you FOR SURE that parents help kids find jobs. We will fill our entry level jobs come June 1 with a large number of new hires fresh out of college, most of them friends of friends.  [b]Economic generational privileged is alive and well[/b]. My parents were never in a position to help me, but I do have one boy going to West Point this Fall and I definitely helped pave the way with help from the many colleagues I've had over the years that are alumni. I helped plant the seeds early with  positioning the boys in excellent service opportunities that gave them exposure.

Do I think the advantage is fair? absolutely not.  However, it does not mean I will waste the opportunity I have to help put my kids on the most successful track possible.[/quote]

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