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[quote=Anonymous]OP, the problem of the daughter does not go away. It just grows greater over time.

I would move out, give 6 months to a year, and see how things go.

If things improve and BF's DD begins managing her life responsibly for a decent period of time (8-12 months+), only then would I reopen the door to considering moving back in.

There is no risk of your moving out, only reward and incentive for your BF to further push DD out of the nest. You can rent your condo at any time.

If their relationship dynamic doesn't improve, you won't have the drama of packing and moving out, getting a tenant out of your house, etc.

And it will be easier to open the relationship to dating other people if you are in your own space again. If things get to that point with you and your boyfriend.

I do think if you have something great, it is not worth throwing away, because that is not easy to find. I also agree with PPs saying that your situation (32, no kids, stable, etc) would be appealing to a lot of men without as much baggage. [/quote]

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