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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you really believe it's not ADHD but rather laziness and stupidity, then the real reason for your unhappiness is this:

Your husband doesn't love you and does not want to be married to you.  He is acting the way he's acting because he has disengaged from you and your marriage. That's the truth.  Please understand this is not a criticism of you; lots of fabulous women have trouble finding love.  But I know that men, even stupid lazy men, want to move mountains to please and be with the women they want.  I don't see this in your husband.

For your own sake, do not see this as a strong woman/weak man couple.  You are not strong.  You are displaying weakness and dependency because you allow him to exploit you, and behave as if you have no alternatives to being his wife.  What do you think your husband would do if he was afraid to lose you? Is he?

What do you think would happen to his life if you leave him? Is he going to keep blowing things off, or is he going to manage his own life just fine? Believe me, he will survive, and he will not suddenly become homeless and helpless.  He will manage.

TLDR version: he doesn't care about you.  That's the only reason. [/quote]

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