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[quote=Anonymous]He has inattentive ADHD. He wants very much to do the right thing and make you happy and that's his intention. But even with his full focus, he then gets anxious while trying to remember all the things you have told him he has to do in a given situation. He tries but he gets it wrong again and he knows it because you sigh, roll your eyes, announce you need to do everything yourself, pick apart what he has done. He then becomes even more anxious about every interaction that he can barely and feels useless. So the next time you are raging mad and ready to tell him to tell him how stupid and lazy he is, stop and think to yourself that right now, your DH feels as raging mad as you do. At himself. And that has now torn away a little bit more of his self esteem and replaced it with anxiety. and yes, your DH should get help and needs medication. it will be a life changer.[/quote]
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