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[quote=Anonymous]Married at 26 and 33. Dated ~3yrs prior. 1 child. Divorce proceedings began right around year 5. In my case, “growing up” made me realize how dysfunctional I was in accepting co-dependent,abusive patterns. As I faced it, and changed, my push to grow healthily and stop patterns made everything blow up. We couldn’t build a new model together. A young child intensified the pressure and he crossed lines hat can never be uncrossed. In his defense, he didn’t know any better, I was the OneNote garb changed the expectations - for real love and self-respect and healing. A different person emerged for both of us, facing opposite instead of joined this time, and the entire experience scarred me and made me question my judgment. Best thing out off the marriage is my child and then courage she’s ignited in me to never back down from anyone who threatens individual healing or growth. [/quote]
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