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I found a "soul mate" in a coworker.  We didn't have any mutual projects, but saw each other in the office, developed a mutual attraction and found ourselves in an EA (we're both married).  We felt comfortable with the work Love to describe our feelings for each other.   Over the next 1.5 years, the fog gradually lifted, and we began to see things we didn't like (her Narcissistic on/off, hot/cold, yes/no behavior being one of them).  It slowly spiraled, became more contentious, and consumed a lot of "problem solving" thoughts.  Try responding honestly to your wife when she asks out of complete concern whether everything is alright because you're constantly frazzled by your work EA.  So by mutual agreement (although with completely different perspectives on root cause), we 'broke up".   She's since been reassigned to office directly next to mine.  Our interactions are civil, cold and awkward.  I avoid every common office event so we're not in the same room.   Do yourself and those who love you and don't start anything.  Under your circumstances, it'll only be fun for a little while.  Then it'll blow up and EVERY DAY at work will suck just a little more.   [/quote]

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