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But why is soda and juice ok for cocktail hour but not for a dinner?  I truly don't understand this.  I'm an adult who doesn't like water and doesn't drink alcohol.  When I eat dinner either at home or at a restaurant I either have soda or juice.  I know sugary drinks aren't good but I don't eat dessert/sweets and I don't smoke/drink alcohol, so I figure it's ok.  I just find that if I only drink water the food just doesn't taste appealing and I have very little appetite.[/quote]
Because for formal dinners, wine or water is meant to enhance--or at least not distract from--the flavors of the food. That's what wine pairings are all about. Making a beautiful filet mignon only to have someone bring Diet Coke to the table is tacky--it just lowers the level of formalitly that your host was trying to achieve. Again, for a pizza dinner, soda is fine; but not for formal dining.[/quote]
NP. I'm not going to judge you for drinking a Diet Coke with dinner. I love DC...and I love wine with my dinner. I probably won't specifically offer it with dinner, because it's just so rare that someone wants it. If I was serving it before dinner, though, you are absolutely welcome to ask for a second glass and I won't think twice if you want that glass at the dinner table.

All of this comes down to the fact that OP is asking for something fairly unusual. Even among adults who don't drink, very few want a sugary drink with their meal. I know many people who don't drink and have dined with them at restaurants, so I know what they do when they have an unlimited selection of drinks. Lemonade at a formal sit-down dinner is just unusual. I'm not going to get all judge-y about it...I just don't provide it because no one drinks it.[/quote]

Exactly. I hope OP realizes she's the one with the unusual taste; a taste so rare that the vast majority of hosts would never dream of serving anything other than water, sparkling water or wine at a formal, sit-down dinner.[/quote]

OP here.  I don't get why I'm so unusual.  Why is dessert served at the end of a meal--because people want something sweet and sugary.  Well I usually eat fruit for dessert but prefer something sweet and sugary with the meal (i.e. juice).  I also don't find water at all thirst quenching, it's very dry.  If it's a 90 degree day and I've been outside water does not quench my thirst, but lemonade does.  I rarely drink soda but instead buy a lot of organic juices from Trader Joes. I don't see anything wrong with this at all.  I just find it intersting that so many people aren't like this.  I will say though that growing up my parents always had sugary drinks in the fridge so maybe that's why.[/quote]

Water is dry?!? This thread slowly becomes a classic...[/quote]

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