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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, have you tried changing your terms. Instead of saying i’m Looking for exclusivity, maybe saying i’m Not willing to sleep with someone who is currently sleeping with other people?[/quote]

This ends up being a technicality because a guy could have had a ONS or date 2 that he slept with the day before this conversation and in his mind it’s not exclusive so he doesn’t know that he would sleep with them again.  So check, not currently sleeping with anyone else. Starts sleeping with you.  Goes out on a date 2 months later and starts sleeping with new girl and it “just heppened”.  Does he have the honesty to immediately say he slept with another person the previous night?  And would he tell you even if he didn’t plan to see her again?  Would it hurt more or less to have it happen that way?[/quote]

this is a technicality only if you want to keep dating other people and are looking for excuses.

either you want to exclusively want to date OP or not. until you are not sure there is no sex with OP. it's really not that hard.[/quote]

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