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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. First off I’m not ugly or weird. Handsome and shy more like it. My wife actually married up in looks and no, I’m not deluded, just honest. Second I’m not abusive. I’m just shocked this old her isn’t matching up with the new. We have lots of predictable, routine type sex which is good but not as free or exciting as I think her past was. She’s a high strung lawyer now with kids (100% not cheating) so I think life is to blame for her more restrained libido.

I’m more jealous she had this experience and I didn’t. Internal reasons have lessened and external opportunities are presenting now (which weren’t there when I was younger) to grow my social circle and date/meet a ton of women (interest is heavily reciprocated). I’d never act on any of it but I do feel resentment my life has worked out backwards (inner issues and limited external opportunities when I was younger to more confidence and high external opportunities when married). That’s my frustration.

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Have you been reading red pill stuff? It seems like married men read it, then suddenly think they are casanova and angry that they can't sleep with whoever they want (news flash: those women you think want to sleep with you? They probably don't, they are just being nice).

I slept with 70+ women in my 20s-mid 30s, and it's overrated. I don't think about it, I don't look back fondly on it. Nothing magical happened that I can't get with my DW. All I think now is that I was stupid for putting myself at risk for STDs and unwanted pregnancies.

Work on your marriage. The grass isn't greener on the other side, it's green where you water it. [/quote]

This is so true on so many levels. When I was young and hot, any friendliness I expressed was taken esp by older men as a comeon. I just like chatting!

And I love the watering analogy.

OP Google midlife crisis. I think your photo is on the Wikipedia page.[/quote]

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