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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think it's reasonable to expect a guy in his 40's to commit to an exclusive relationship until after he has had sex with someone at least a few times. [b]What if he commits to an exclusive relationship and the sex is bad?[/b] I don't sleep with a guy until at least the third date and only if I really like him. If the sex is great then exclusivity might soon come up. [/quote]

You end it? What am I missing? You try to have a relationship, and if you don’t like it you break up.[/quote]

I'm with this person. So what? You are exclusive for 2 months or 3 months and find out you aren't compatible and then end it. Easy.  Ug. I don't want to be sleeping with somebody who is sleeping with somebody else.[/quote]
Not PP but it all sounds like a bit of mental gymnastics. You have married women whose husband's are sleeping with someone else, you think calling a relationship "exclusive" after a couple of months is going to protect you from that? Especially if you'd have no qualms breaking up after a few weeks if the sex is bad, and presumably he won't either, "exclusivity" doesn't mean much at all. Not to mention any woman who gets extremely attached after sex isnt going to change just because the sex is bad, she'll hang in there suffering and trying to make it better. Some women put too much stock in the exclusivity word early on and end up with the same hurt feelings at the end of the day.[/quote]

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