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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had been on 2 dates with a guy who told he didn’t think it will work out. He gave the reason as me not being in the “ league” he usually goes for. He said I’m cute and fun with a good personality, but he is looking for someone who has their life together at our 29.[/quote]

I’ve edited out your editorials and left only what you report he said to you. What’s wrong with this? He says he wants someone with their life together. What’s wrong with that?[/quote]

If he literally told Op that she was not in the "league" of women that he usually goes for and that he's disinterested in her because she doesn't have her "life together", that's tactless and a rude statement to make.  If Op is putting those words into his mouth after what he really said was, "I think you are cute. fun, have a great personality but I'm looking for someone who is a bit more established in life"....that is different.

But you don't go out with someone and tell them that they are out of your league and put them down for not having their act together.  That's needlessly rude and even downright mean.[/quote]

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