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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had been on 2 dates with a guy who told he didn’t think it will work out. He gave the reason as me not being in the “ league” he usually goes for. I worked as a medical tech and just took the jump to further my career. I just started school ( 4 years - 3 years bachelor + 1 year fellowship) to become a radiation therapist. He said I’m cute and fun with a good personality, but he is looking for someone who has their life together at our 29. I get it, and I figured it would be an issue, but it sucks. I want to find something serious, maybe that can lead to marriage, but now do put off from dating. I want to be seen as a great catch, but I know in my current state, most wont view me in that way. Part of me wants to just wait until at least done with school ( 32) to start dating. Maybe then I will have a better chance as coming across as a better catch. I’m bummed and feeling hopeless.[/quote]
I do not understand OP why you are offended. He went out with you twice, decided you are not what he is looking for and has moved on. Why would he want to date you, and miss the woman of his dreams? And why would you want to waste your time dating him, when you should be looking the man of your dreams?

I met a very nice person, great in fact, but not for me. He asked for another date, I told him the truth - we are in different places in life, looking for different things, I wish you the best. (instead of ghosting or making up some bs) [/quote]

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