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[quote=Anonymous] it s unfortunate what you are going through, however you have no one else to blame but yourself. I am sure this behavior did not just suddenly show up as you stated from her upbringing her parents did everything for her. As you were dating her that was the time to discern if the two of you would be a match. well it doesn't seem there is! marriage is a partnership and involves a lot of compromise regardless of who makes more money or not. she not wanting a cleaning service is ridiculous to begin with. you know her more that anyone on this thread.. so you will have to decide because her behavior is not going to change. she is not willing to make any compromise with managing your (both) household. I have made significantly more that my husband and do most of the cleaning/cooking.. I seriously hate doing dishes and he does them for me. or he will let me know to wash my one plate so it doesn't pile up into a huge mess. We both work FT and am in the healthcare working opposite shifts and we still manage to get things done. I even still joke to hiring a cleaning service but I intend to do so the moment we have kids and that my bottom line.... either get counseling to figure the underlying issues of your marriage cuz this won't last as you will get resentful. best to figure it out now than later and hopefully you (get a vasectomy) or she ties her tubes cuz children like a PP said will magnified the issue.[/quote]
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