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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't do anything until baby is 18 months.[/quote]
Not bad advice. But follow this only if you are prepared to forgive his affair. No sense pretending a man would go that long without. 
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Is OP's husband willing to forgive her affair too, if she has one? Because by being hostile and aggressive, he has also abandoned her "need" to have sex with someone she feels safe with.

Honestly I am sick of you men claiming then men will surely and justifiably go have an affair if the wife doesn't put out immediately, regardless of the reasons they aren't having sex (which are almost always joint reasons). It's like your last gasp to hold sexual power over women now that the tides have turned and you can't physically coerce us. [/quote]

He might forgive her affair. But she won't have one. Because she's not interested in sex and has no motivation for an affair. She has her baby and no need for a man (physically). This is part of the problem: he has a need for sex, she does not. As to "immediately put out" it's been over a year which is unforgivable.

I was not taking either side, just stating the facts. Sorry if that makes you so angry. You simply do not have a man's sex drive so you may not understand this, but it is 100% true when I say (regardless of the cause, regardless of who is "at fault") a man will not stay faithful in a sexless marriage.  Sorry but she does not get to "keep her marriage" while not having sex and expect him to be faithful. She can divorce now, or wait it out, while looking the other way.[/quote]

You know what is so funny about you simpleton men? You think we have a low sex drive. We don't. We have a very high sex drive, but just not for you.  My sex drive and most of my friends are THROUGH THE ROOF from our late 30s to early 50s.

Believe me when I tell you, it is not me, it's you. Oh and if you think we are not having affairs, you are WRONG. We are just not as stupid as you. We cover our tracks and don't get caught. We know we need to get our kids through the critical years before we can ditch the dead weight. Women initiate 70% of divorces.

You are a typical man, your arrogance had rendered you dumb and dumber, but just remember, our sex drive is probably way more than yours,  we just aren't into you.[/quote]
Actually men know full well that our wife's interest in sex quickly drops for us but remains high for other men. So what? Just means I am more desired by random married women versus my own wife. I am OK with that and seems like it's NOT really me after all! So if my wife (despite her low interest) fails to keep up, I have lots of options to be the sexy "other man" for horny women like you and your friends. Digits please.[/quote]

It is you. If your wife doesn't want to have sex with you, it's because...you. you have major character flaws and are basically unfuc%able. [/quote]
What don't you grasp about the fact that one woman's boring/flawed/unF__able DH is (magically) the [b]hot/interesting/mysterious[/b] "new man" to any other 10 married women ?[/quote]

Yea, but that's not you.

What you are missing is many women fuc% their husbands, there are also many women who are so attracted to their very fuc%able husbands, these men have a hard time keeping up. But, this is not you. Never will be you.  I'd bet your wife is being satisfied by a real man elsewhere. [/quote]

Written like a serial cheater who gets bored after 6-9 months of f_cking the same ol, same ol’ DH. You deserve exciting and new tingles, The grass is always greener right?[/quote]

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