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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not for it. I believe most women who live with a man before marriage are looking to get married. Men often are not on the same page. Also I feel as though women may not want to voice their likes/dislikes because they are afraid to argue less the man will not marry them, so they brush basic things under the rug like that really fun ex he still hangs out with as "friends." Basically the woman is not her full self because she's auditioning for the role of wife to a man who's going along for the ride. Sometimes they marry and sometimes they don't but those issues are still under the rug. Do they come out before or after the divorce.[/quote] Umm, no. If you are in a committed, monogamous relationship and [b]your serious boyfriend cheats on you, you can most certainly move out and put an end to that relationship, ASAP.[/b] You walk away with everything that you brought to the table - your bank account, your 401K, your investments, your car, your t.v, etc - all still yours. If your husband cheats on you then you have to go through a divorce, along with a separation, split of marital assets......which is time consuming, expensive and emotionally draining.[/quote] Yes but it's a lot more hassle to do this while moving out vs. simply stopping to take his calls if you happen to live separately. [/quote]
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