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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband did something similar in that he badmouthed me to his family during a rough spot during our marriage.  He recognizes what he did was really wrong and since then, he’s made it clear how I’m his priority.  He has told his family they aren’t allowed to say bad things about me and has made it clear that the old behavior is a thing of the past.  Of course his family now dislikes me and thinks we have a bad marriage and this is my husband’s fault.  He knows he is as fault for this.  Now we have to ignore his family for the most part.  Things will never be the same.  However my husband has tried his best to rectify the situation and put me first.  It’s hard enough to get over this and I can’t imagine having a husband who wouldn’t do anything about it.  [/quote]

This is totally different from OP's situation. OP has been disrespected by her husband since Day One, and OP's husband is not going to change. There is no respect to "go back" to. It is not a rough spot in her marriage--her marriage was always dysfunctional.

I'm also going to assume that you are pretty certain that your husband did not cheat on you, while OP's husband...can't say the same there.[/quote]

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