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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think your focus on "bouncing back" is misplaced. How can you "bounce back" to a place you've never been? You've always been on the outs with DH's friends because he portrayed you, his feelings for you, and your relationship very negatively. There's no "back" to a good place, you've never been in one. He views you in an extremely negative light. That is the real problem. This cannot have only manifested in what he says to others, but also in your relationship. I'd explore in personal counseling why you'd keep someone in your life who didn't treat you with respect. That includes how he speaks about you to others. Why did you accept it from the get-go, and should you accept it now? [/quote]
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