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[quote=Anonymous]Oh dear, OP, you are really snowed. You're in the thick of it, and you have two young kids, so I get trying to save your marriage. I do. But you also need to understand that your husband cares more about his friends than he does about his family. That's fundamentally what's at stake. HE CARES MORE ABOUT HIS FRIENDS THAN HE CARES ABOUT HIS FAMILY. Maybe things can be salvaged. But he has to clearly and in no uncertain terms tell his friends to knock it off, that he is happy, and that his friends have to accept you. And if they aren't willing to accept you, he has to be willing to walk away. 9:40 has it right - the only one that can fix it is him. You keep being you (for the love of god do not write any of his friends or try to talk to them). He has to decide what matters most to him and live his life by those priorities. [/quote]
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