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[quote=Anonymous]Eh, not sure you're getting good advice to pursue law firm partners. From our perspective, there is a big difference between an ivy educated now sah type (status symbol) versus everyone else sah type (dead weight). As others have said, the associates in DC want the former for sure. The partners are either already married to the former, or if not, they are divorced (comes with baggage) or never married (worse baggage). While those partners are okay with the not-ivy group, and may pursue them, it comes with some serious downsides.... first being, you're stuck with a guy who is in that pool of divorced or never married with baggage. Second being, they're never going to see you as a peer or equal. I talk to these men about the women they are dating, and there is little enthusiasm besides her hotness. The partners sometimes end up moving down the inevitable path to marriage, but they are just not that into it emotionally and are just married to their jobs and other things. OP may be okay with this, but it means you have to live in a house with someone who after about 3 years is like a roommate you occasionally have sex with, and sure as shit don't be surprised when he divorces you in 10 years. They were borderline indifferent to you when you first married, so it only goes downhill from there. [/quote]
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