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[quote=Anonymous]After reading all this OP, it seems like you just want to leave your wife (no matter how great) and your kids, and you seem to be looking for validation, which a few posters did give you. You know that the grass will not be greener with another family, but it seems as if your core issue is you do not want to be monogamous to your wife (or any other woman).

Sit down and talk to her. See if she is in for an open marriage- just remember, while you are out doing your thang, she will be out too. Or sit down, with a financial planner and realistically see what you can afford to pay to support her and your kids.

I knew a man like you, that always felt anxiety/depression, & even abused substances. Drove his wife and kids crazy. She felt he was constantly looking at other women or cheating. To save her marriage, she did everything & anything for him, including group sex and other things. In his case, the reason he couldn't be faithful to her or any woman, was because it turns out he was gay. He didn't want to face reality because of his religion and his parents. After his parents died, he left his wife and kids and openly dated men. This was extremely unfair to his wife who spent many years thinking, "if only I were better, prettier, smarter, etc... and did things she was uncomfortable with, to "please" him. In reality, her biggest "problem" was that she didn't have man parts.  She absolutely hates him, not for being gay but for torturing her instead of being honest, If this is your case, you need to be honest with yourself and her. Then come up with some equitable solutions for your kids (and wife).  [/quote]

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