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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These responses really surprise me.  So all of you women who married a man with an ex, you are totally cool with that ex being in your home whenever she feels like it, when you aren't home?  I'm a re-married man who gets along with my ex just fine but not even my ex is dumb enough to think that's OK and I sure as hell wouldn't allow it out of respect for my W.  I'd also respect my exW's husband enough to not be dropping in and spending time in his house whenever I felt like it when he wasn't home.

Once in a while?  Sure.  But as a regular thing?  NFW.[/quote]

Most I know wouldn't do that on both sides. Sounds like the ex wife has issues.   [/quote]

Or the ex-wife completely moved on and thinks of her ex now more like a brother or something. I hang out with my ex and when I think back, it's like we were different people. We evolved and we're like family, but the idea of being a couple with him or intimate feels as wrong and creepy as if we were truly blood relatives. It's up to you and your gut as to whether you feel that's the case here, and you have every right to set the boundaries if you're not comfortable. She's a co-parent and may be friends with your husband, but you're the queen of your house.[/quote]

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