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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, why haven't you talked to your husband about this, if it bothers you?

Whatever you do, in the future:

1) Don't use your daughter as a spy

2) Don't use your nanny as a spy

3) Don't say that your stepson "lives with you," meaning you, your husband and your daughter. He doesn't "live with you," he's a part of your family. This is Ethan's home. You may want to examine that, and address it. Because if we're picking up on this vibe that you don't truly think of your stepson as family, then believe me, he's picked up on it, too.[/quote]

Oh please you're projecting way too many things. It was to make the point Ethan is not her bio and he lives with them versus the mother. So obvious and no disrespect to him was obviously mean't.  The DD told her whereby she confirmed it with the nanny, doesn't in any way imply she's telling them to spy for her, lol.  It's her house and I assume she also helps pay the bills. She has the right to know who was there while she was gone.  
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Why did she find it necessary to confirm it with the nanny? I am sure the nanny now thinks OP is insecure as f***. Don't do that to your nanny, OP. If something of that nature needs confirmation, go to your spouse. You can always explain to him that you were just curious to see if dd knows what she is talking about. The nanny would not buy that explanation, but your spouse might.[/quote]
Who cares what the nanny thinks?[/quote]

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