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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a women who is good looking with a nice body still (I'm not bragging, it is what it is...lucked out) I enjoy when certain men flirt with me.  They know I'm married.  I wear my engagement and wedding band everyday.  I've had this chat with my friends and the honest truth is it all 100% depends on man.  And yes it is 100% unfair.

If the flirting is coming from an attractive or nice man most women don't mind at all. But, if it's coming from someone you don't care for or isn't attractive it's "harassment" or "unwanted".  Yes, it's unfair but that's life.  Any woman who's honest will agree.  You don't mind the small flirt or touch on the shoulder from an attractive nice man.  But, if it's from someone you don't care for you file it under "harassment".

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I have a friend whom I've known for eight years.  We are both married and met after we were married.  In honestly if I could turn back time I would LOVE OH MY LOVE to have dated this man before I met my husband. He's kind, sweet, mature, hard working, very funny and attractive. He's my "if I wasn't married now crush".  I know he feels the same by the way he speaks whenever we talk.

One day I asked him for a huge favor.  We were at a member's club chatting (meaning not many people around) at the bar and a few times he placed his hand on my knees.  I was wearing a skirt.  I did not flinch.  Of course, we both knew it was just flirting.  But, reality is [b]I've had other members in the club try to give me hugs or whatever and if they did that..hell no[/b].  Some may read this and think it's wrong for me to let someone touch my knee, but really it's a knee not my tits or ass.  Bottom line is it depends on the man and what type of flirting it is.  My friend has never mentioned my body in specifics, only saying how nice I look, etc.  He knows the line as I do.

I see some of my friends who get chatted up by men.  Sure it's flirting to a degree but it's harmless.  As someone posted above "we're not dead".
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What's wrong with a hug?  (of course while your "friend" rubs your knee and it's fine)[/quote]

What if you don't want to hug someone?  Why is a hug okay when it's almost full body on body contact, but a hand on a knee is worse???  You need to get a clue.  Also, it's the woman's right to accept affection from whomever she chooses.  She's not hiding that she likes her friend, so what's the problem?  It's pretty common you let your guard down around people you like.

Grow up.  Welcome to the real world.[/quote]

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