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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think she's cheating. I haven't had sex in over a year, neither of us are interested. Still enjoy life together though, and neither one of us is looking to destroy our marriage by cheating. [/quote]
 
Your marriage is destroyed. You are roommates.[/quote]

Why is everyone so melodramatic?  OP, do some fun, new things with your wife.  Sometimes people just get bored.[/quote]

no it does not matter if you do the laundry, or take care of the kids, or take her out to dinner, or do something different.  she doesnt care about the marriage.  You are not that important to her.    been there,   get out now.  there are other women that will actively take part in a marriage.[/quote]

It really is that simple, she doesn't care about the marriage OR has zero respect for you. Therapy wont work, you cant "therapy" someone into respect or caring. The only thing that may is if it becomes apparent to her that he is willing to leave or if she sense another woman is a threat because  she may  be interested in him. [/quote]

Respect and caring are not the problem. [b]She probably actually does respect and care for him.[/b] She doesn't [i]desire[/i] him, however. (She would say, as the classic phrase goes, "I love you but I'm not in love with you".) You can't therapy her into desiring you, either, so don't waste your time with that.

The only solution is for him to become much more attractive. Lift, dress better, re-learn how to flirt with women (and practice this on wife). She'll think he has the option to leave her for another woman; this will either cause her desire for him to increase, in which case deadbedroom problem solved, or it won't, and he can pull the plug on her and get another woman, in which case deadbedroom problem also solved.[/quote]

Agree 100% with all you wrote except what is in bold. No way she respects him, a wife is not going dead bedroom if they respect their spouse. Not going to happen. It is a clear indicator of: I don't think you have the balls to leave or no one else would want you. 10 to 1 odds she would say men need sex or is very important to them. [/quote]

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