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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After 35 years and 2500 times [u]it must get boring[/u] no matter how close you are. If not, what's your secret? [/quote]
Maybe this point about "boring" is really the heart of the question.  Is sex something that's supposed to be "[i]exciting![/i]" every time to be considered a success?  If so, then yes, I can imagine it's hard for each and every one of 2000+ encounters with the same person to be new and different enough to remain super exciting.

But perhaps the answer is that not all sex needs to be super hot and exciting.  Some sex can simply feel good, sort of like a massage with benefits.  I've had a lot of massages, but I'd never turn one down as "boring" simply because I've had a bunch - they just feel good.  Other sex might be part of an emotional tie between partners, like a close hug.  Just because a hug isn't exciting doesn't mean it's not enjoyable.

If your view of sex is that each encounter must make the earth move, or else it's not worthwhile, then you're surely going to be disappointed.[/quote]

What a ridiculously mature perspective! You should be banned from this site.[/quote]

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