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[quote=Anonymous]Hey folks, weekly sex, which was the case for OP, is not the same thing as a sexless marriage. Nor did it sound like the husband expressed disappointment or frustration about it..instead both parties allowed intimacy (which goes beyond sex) to dwindle, but only one spouse started an affair. OP, the issue truly is not the sex, but whether you can believe him in the future, and that depends on whether he is capable of radical self honesty (takes a lot to.maintain the level of deception) and whether he is capable of dealing with stress, disappoinment neediness in appropriate ways. Agree that you should for now see individual therapists, and consider post nuptial agreement. You do not have to make any decisions about the marriage now, not should you even feel pressured to declare that you are willing to work on it or stay in it. Just give yourself some time and space....[/quote]
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