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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was divorced at 28 with three kids. I had a blast dating, always kept my dating life and home life separated. I dated a wide range from five years younger than me to 20 years older. Men pursued me, and I was quite happy to maintain my singledom. I figured that I had had my kids, I had a good career, and I enjoyed being single. 
While traveling solo I met an incredible man, tall, kind, smart, handsome, great job, two years younger than I am. I friend zoned him immediately because he had never been married, had no kids. As friends we developed an amazing connection, he convinced me that he didn’t want to be in the friend zone ;), we dated, married, and now have another kid. My children from marriage 1 love their stepdad, they get to see a loving and respectful relationship modeled every day (a far cry from what is modeled in XH’s home), and are happy kids. [/quote]

Married a woman older than him with three kids, sucker. "incredible man, tall, kind, smart, handsome, great job, two years younger than I am. Friend-zoned him.........amazing connection" translates to i found a safe provider after I had the men I wanted to b. [/quote]

This story would be impressive if pp was divorced at 38 and not 28.  Much easier to date and find a guy when you are in your late 20ties and early 30ties and many more single, childless, never married men too.[/quote]

Yes. It makes a difference. But when you have kids, it tends to scare away men who don't have kids yet. [/quote]

Looks matter too.  I know divorced women with 3 kids in their twenties who have no problem at all finding men to date.  All pretty and slim.  The guy may not want to marry them but find them very f able.[/quote]

The threshold of f able is not very high, it is the work to f ratio that counts. [/quote]

True.  I know a married woman in her 20ties with 3 kids who is banging a 50 something old enough to be her daddy but it is probably because most men her age see the husband and three kids and run away.[/quote]

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