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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm 43 and last year I dated a guy who was 65. He looked like he was in his early to mid 50's but he was very upfront about being 65. He was absolutely wonderful in all ways imaginable. He was fun, smart, treated me well and was great in bed. I adored him but he broke it off saying that in 15 years he'd be 80 and I'd still be a young 58 and that would be a bad deal for me. I cried for like two days until I realized he was absolutely right. I'm now dating someone closer to my age and he is dating someone in her late 50's. We are still good friends but oh how I wish he was 15 years younger. [/quote]

Here's the thing. The average marriage these days lasts 10 years. So you could marry your younger guy and STILL very easily wind up single again at 58. Hope it lasts longer but these days you never know.[/quote]

Yeah, at least with the older guy, if he dies, he might leave you with some money.

Assuming he has money.[/quote]

I know a 24yo Philippine woman who is married to a 64yo Fed mid level manager. All she has to do is f+=k him until he dies and she gets half his Fed pension for her remaining 50 years. Gotta love our government.[/quote]

Not just half his pension but 100 percent of his TSP, his FELGI life insurance, plus she can file for his Social Security when she gets to be retirement age.  Viagra may be a greater inter-generational wealth leveler than the estate tax.

I know a similar Fed who is a little older.  His idiot wife divorced him, managed to get just about nothing, and then a few years later he met and married a 40yo Filippina (she looks 25).  
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Not necessarily.That 64 yo might have FEGLI, TSP, etc in his kids or ex-wife's name still or give it to charity. Plenty of Feds die having never changed anything over to the new spouse. And his pension might already go partially to an ex-wife, depending on the divorce decree.[/quote]

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