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[quote=Anonymous]Everyone's journey through life is different along with every woman's wants and needs.  You were career driven and now you have the career you and salary you want.  You can provide a great life for yourself and your future child and you have the memories of enjoying your youth at the same time.  I had children young, got married young, and still struggling trying to develop my career. I love my kids and my family but when I look back at my 20's I was working multiple jobs, trying to go to school, struggling trying to make ends meet, with no end in sight.  fast forward 19 years and 1 child is in college, 1 is in high school and 1 is in middle school and I still find little time for myself.  I can't change my past so I don't wallow in it or think about it but the grass always looks greener on the other side. I look at my situation like this: I may have not had the fun, youthful, wild, 20s that others may have had but I had my children young which means when the last one is in college, I will be approximately 44 years old and unless the Lord takes me out of here, I will have a lot of life left to do what I want to do while other people around my age will be shuffling kids around.  When you have children, you will be able to support them, take them on memorable fun vacations, spoil them (if you want), and so much more.  Of course you may have access to other luxuries such as a nanny, private schools, which may help make life easier if you continue to work.  Enjoy what you have and where you are, you worked hard to get there.  The other part will happen at the right time so don't rush it and you will appreciate it so much more.[/quote]

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