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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is great.  We have the OP and NP trying to blame anything or anyone other then themselves for their affairs.

[quote]Very different situation, but [b]I found myself[/b] in love with a married man (he was 26 and I was 22 and no kids were involved) and I know this situation is nowhere near as cut and dry as people on DCUM want to make it out. We tried everything we could to end it, but it was a[b] force bigger than us.[/b][/quote]

You "found" yourself in love with a married man?  Where you lost and magically found yourself waking up in his bed (when his wife was not around)?  Nope. You "found" this guy and boinked him while he was married.  A "force bigger than" the two of you pushed you together?  What, the Redskins offensive line pushed you into his arms and him out of his marriage?  The only force around was the "boinking" force employed when you were his side piece.

[quote]If we split, I would want only happiness for him. If it is with someone younger and prettier, that is fine. So long as she makes him happy and is good to my kids. I am not the devil that you all want to make me out to be. And he hasn't been perfect, far from it. [/quote]

He has not been perfect? It might be hard to be a perfect husband while your wife is boinking her AP and thinking about leaving you.  You say you are not the devil we want you to be.  What you mean is that you did not expect to have posters call you out on your infidelity and the pathetic defense of it (i.e., because he was far from perfect it is fine to cheat.)   Your AP had the right idea.  Cut ties with the family you are lying to, grow up, and let your husband find someone who cares about him.[/quote]

+ 1000

NP, you are not good and decent people. Talk to me when his XW characterizes you as such.[/quote]

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