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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He may not marry a much younger woman.  However, it is likely he will remarry.

OP - If you think that you are the best deal he will ever have, look at how you treated him and rethink that idea.  If you think you are best looking woman he will ever have, then you have much bigger issues than the ones you have laid out on DCUM.[/quote]

I don't think that at all.  If we split, I would want only happiness for him.  If it is with someone younger and prettier, that is fine.  So long as she makes him happy and is good to my kids.  I am not the devil that you all want to make me out to be.  And he hasn't been perfect, far from it.  I wouldn't have been susceptible to someone else if my marriage was going well.  He emotionally abandoned me and refused all my efforts to reconnect.  He finally is trying, but for me it seems to be too late.  [/quote]

OP, I don't think you're the devil.  I don't envy your position at all.  Very different situation, but I found myself in love with a married man (he was 26 and I was 22 and no kids were involved) and I know this situation is nowhere near as cut and dry as people on DCUM want to make it out.  We tried everything we could to end it, but it was a force bigger than us.  It's 13 years later and we are very happily married with a child.  It took both of us many years to recover from the extremely difficult situation we met in.  He was wracked with guilt and so was I.  Very few people know the truth about how my husband and I met, but we are good and decent people with a happy family.  Also, through social media we know that his ex-wife remarried with a child of her own.

I'm not saying you should stay or you should go.  As a mother, and as a child who grew up in an unstable home, I worry about your children.  But, as a person, I know that we are all human.  Life is rich and complicated and complex.  This is a big decision and I wish you strength.  [/quote]

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