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[quote=Anonymous][quote]So you like the traditions that give you power but not the ones that take power away from you? If you want a traditional marriage(ie SAHM, husband making the money, etc, etc) you really can not just pick the traditions that are good for you. Did you split the check while dating or did he paid for everything? Also marriage is about compromising, what are you compromising?[/quote] where on earth did you get that OP wants to be a SAHM? and where is he compromising? To me, it seems that the person who is getting something taken away--her name--should be the decider. He loses nothing. and if you want to talk about "power"--if she gives up her name, she is giving up some part of her identity. If she keeps her name--what harm does it do to him? seriously? [/quote]
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