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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few years ago just before I got married I had an amazing father/daughter conversation with my Dad about marriage and fidelity. My parents have been happily married for over 30 years and it's very obvious they are still in love. I asked my Dad if he had ever been tempted to cheat and he said "sure, everyone is!" I was like whoa! He then said something like "it's human nature to at some point be physically attracted to someone else but that doesn't mean you do anything about it." Before I could ask him the BIG question he said that he had never cheated not just because he loved my mom but because my siblings and I would lose respect for him and that would kill him. He then went on to say that when he went off to college the only advice his father ever gave him was to always make his mother proud and never embarrass the family. He'd never forgotten that. I then reminded him that when I went off to college he said "remember, college guys are only interested in two things - getting drunk and getting laid usually in that order!" He then said "well, my father was far more eloquent!" [/quote]

I could never have a conversation like that with my father! Do you really believe he was telling the truth?[/quote]

Yes, I do though I know some people on DCUM would never believe someone could be faithful! But I do know that it would kill him if he lost the respect of my mother and his children. He's just wired that way and he's been a great example. After I graduated from college and before I got married we'd have dinner together once a month just to catch up and we always had interesting conversations. It's something I do miss being married. [/quote]

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