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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are not even officially exclusive and have not even discussed what our relationship is.  We went to a party together and he left upset.  He said that I was flirting with other guys, and he sees this as a sign that I will cheat on him.  His previous GF cheated on him.

I did not think I was flirting, but maybe I was?  Now that I think about it, I CAN see how he saw it that way.  I was being friendly and trying to meet new people (I am new to the area and have few friends).

He later tells me how MUCH he really likes me and that he saw a future with us.  But now that I have flirted right in front of him, he "cannot do this."

WTH? Why didn't he tell me that he felt that I was ignoring him at the party?  I was trying to balance spending time with him and meeting new people.  Now I am a potential cheater.

I have tried talking to him, apologizing, and tell him that I didn't realize that he was upset.  Rather than talk to me, he ended it.

What do you make of this?

[/quote]Since you two never established your relationship prior to the party, you can do anything and anyone you want at the party.[/quote]

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