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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of my daughter's close friends had a massive party and a handful of girls slept over.  It wasn't weird or rude at all.  None of the girls discussed it and the kids who slept over had been really good friends for years mixed in with many newer friends from a brand new school.[/quote]

This is common in my boys circle.  They are surprisingly discreet and don't tell others.  Parents sneak in overnight gear.

We've been on both sides.

Maybe there's less "mean girl" type stuff amongst boys--but never hard feelings.  Hug group of friends with smaller closer subsets.[/quote]

We’ve done this, but only with 1-2 kids sleeping over. We also were discrete about hiding the sleeping bags. But almost half the party sleeping over is too much in my opinion.

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Because you couldn't do it another day?

Honestly I don't really know what's wrong with people like you.  [/quote]

Honestly, why? Why should I have to schedule a separate sleepover AFTER the party is over? Even if the other kids find out about it, this is a small disappointment in the scheme of things.  Instead of complaining, YOU can talk to your child about how you cannot always be invited (just has I have with my own and she has lived to tell about it).[/quote]

Ladies and gentlemen, I give you the genesis of the mean girl. Why on earth would I modify what I want to do to accommodate others?  You might want to talk to YOUR child about tact, and courtesy and how just because it is your birthday doesn't mean you get to do everything you want. I can see your daughter as the annoying one who is parading around the bar in a tiara and a sash demanding drinks because "ITS MY BIRTHDAY!"[/quote]

This post made me laugh out loud.  You don't know what the eff you're talking about and no exactly nothing about my DD. Just goes to show not to make assumptions.  But if you equate this as "exclusion" you have terrible issues.  Let me guess, you're the one constantly posting that their obsessing over FB posts of people out with friends and you weren't invited? My DD deals with "exclusion" in a more adult manner than you're representing here. [/quote]

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