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[quote=Anonymous]It's rude, it really does come across as having a two-tiered guest list. Have the sleepover another night. My DD was invited to a party when she was 12 and some kids did sleep over, they had an early soccer game the next morning and the birthday parent offered to drive them all. That made things easier for the kids, there was no sneaky attempt to hide it (do you people who think you're so clever at hiding it really think the kids don't know?!) making it seem even worse, and the kids knew the soccer kids weren't going to be staying up late having a party into the wee hours. Even then, there was disappointment to deal with, and if I'd known the situation I probably wouldn't have sent my DD - at 12 she was very aware of disappointment and sometimes let it overshadow joy. There are enough life lessons to let you learn how to deal with that, no need to add extras.[/quote]
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